The Beauty of Purposeful Simplicity in Homemaking

I have long been fascinated by the relationship between form and function in architectural design. You can start with either. Each naturally leads to the other. The form of a space, for instance, strongly influences its function. Conversely, the way a space is used—its function—determines its form. They share a reciprocal relationship. 

So it is with purposeful simplicity, a phrase I collected early in my homemaking, which has guided me over the years. Purpose simplifies. Simplicity reveals purpose. The relationship is reciprocal. 

Imagine a dining room. Unfortunately I have been in many new homes which do not include space for a family to eat together. A small area is relegated for the use of a table. Thus communicating the builder’s value that communal meals are not of primary importance in the family home. I strong disagree with this design. What is a home without communal meals? Where is the pleasure of eating? 

If we want our family to connect each day around a meal at the table, we need to give thoughtful consideration to the place we plan to eat. Uncomfortable seating will not do. Screens competing for attention will distract from meaningful conversations. Glaring lights will give interrogation more than reception, welcome, invitation. 

The purpose of the space simplifies your options. You choose the warm light on a dimmer. Screens are not welcome. The chairs have cushions. Purpose simplifies. 

On the other hand, simplicity reveals purpose. As you remove the clutter and noise, the swirl of activity stills. You begin to discover the why of a place, of a room, of a person.

Last February, my house reminded me of a moshpit. I felt pushed around and overstimulated. The decibel level of stuff was at an all time high. So I began to Hush the House (thank you to The Nester for that phrase). My family feared for their lives. I feared for my sanity. 

Everything that could be was put down in the basement, save human beings. 

As the rooms were simplified, their purpose became a little more clear. 

We are a forgetful people—always needing to remember our purpose. 

Our lives are ever changing; children are ever growing. The market is always selling. We have to keep working at simplicity. 

For a little over a decade now, purposeful simplicity has waved like a banner over my life. Not merely because I like a peaceful home or because I’m a homebody. The why of purposeful simplicity is itself simple: faithful and wise living. 

Those two words—faithful and wise—come from the parables about who will receive an eternal reward in the end. The faithful and wise servant is the one who does well. So it is my hope that as I cultivate purposeful simplicity, I will be found faithful and grow in wisdom. If you’d like to do the same, I invite you to join me here. 

Find a seat at my dining table. The cushions are soft. The lights are warm, and the conversation will hopefully be meaningful and light.